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Relationship therapy enquiry — Psychologist

People may want help with recurring relationship difficulties rather than a mediator to settle a specific decision. Describe the kind of support and intended participants at a high level; intimate details, safety concerns and personal histories should be handled through the professional's confidential intake.

Service scope

A request for an appropriately qualified professional to assess and, where suitable, provide therapy focused on a relationship. It is distinct from mediation of practical agreements, deciding blame or promising reconciliation, and joint work should not be assumed appropriate in every situation.

What is normally included

  • Suitability discussion for relationship-focused therapy
  • Agreed individual or joint therapeutic work
  • Referral when a different service is needed

What is not included

  • Legal settlement mediation
  • Guaranteed reconciliation
  • Treating unsafe joint participation as routine couples work

Typical tasks

  • Clarify the therapy request
  • Assess proposed participation privately
  • Explain the therapeutic approach and boundaries
  • Agree suitable session arrangements
  • Review whether the service remains appropriate

What to include in your brief

  • Relationship-support request
  • Intended participant roles
  • Adult or family context
  • Preferred format and language
  • Practical appointment needs

Choosing the right professional

Check relevant relationship-therapy training and the provider's professional status. Ask about separate contact, confidentiality between participants and safety screening, and distinguish therapy from mediation, legal advice or a promise to preserve the relationship.

Important considerations

  • Joint therapy may not be suitable for every relationship
  • Participants may have different goals
  • Confidentiality between joint and individual contacts needs clarity

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